If I was single , I could neverrrrrr mess around with someone else’s HUSBAND. Like , bragging about a secret relationship with somebody husband is crazyyyy. 😵💫 Y’all be proud too . It’s wild out here .
You deserve someone who calms your nervous system and makes you feel safe so you can drop your armor, be vulnerable, and freely share your thoughts, feelings, needs, and insecurities through their acceptance, understanding, support, encouragement, and love.
Trauma makes you please other people and drain yourself by focusing too much on how they feel and making sure they feel okay. Healing makes you realize it's not your responsibility to regulate their emotions, manage their insecurities, and pacify their inner wars.
i’m finally coming to peace with the fact that you can’t keep tripping over what you can’t control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of how you feel. Don’t lose your mind try to figure out where you went wrong
when Jhené Aiko said you gotta lose your mind just to find your peace of mind that is so true. you really have to go through a dark time, but there is definitely light at the end of the tunnel.
it kinda disgusts me how everybody just kinda settled for having to share somebody. i will never be okay with no shit like that. ima leave you alone each and every time.